Zebra Ministries: Playing Hurt II

Wednesday, February 16, 2011

Playing Hurt II

Philippians 4:13b-14

But one thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead, I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus.

Good morning Zebras,

I couldn’t shake yesterday’s post about playing hurt. It was intended to be about doing ministry even when we are wounded but I couldn’t stop thinking about all the wounded women I have met who are playing their whole lives hurt.

Last month, my church’s Zebras were instructed to meditate on Philippians 3 and 4 in preparation for retreat. At the herd meeting on Saturday many shared today’s verse saying that through their quiet time and at retreat God had told them to leave everything behind and press on toward the goal of knowing Him.

When Paul wrote this verse, he was thinking about all the good things he’d left behind, how he’d been a religious leader of high standing and a Roman citizen. But most often what we need to leave behind is the pain and disappointment of the past.

Speaking from experience I can tell you that learning to let go of your past is one of the most difficult, but most important tasks, you can ever do. It will literally set you free.

Too often we blame men for the bad things that happen to us. We hold on to bitterness and unforgiveness for the way we’ve been treated. But there is a bigger picture and a larger issue to wrestle with.

God is sovereign and all-powerful; He is in charge of everything that happens. Nothing happens that He does not allow, the good and the bad, and we have to deal with that and accept it or God is not God.

Ten years ago, I asked God why He allowed certain things to happen in my life. He gave me this verse: Job 5:18 "For He wounds, but He also binds up; He injures, but His hands also heal". With it I began to heal.

God does allow us to be injured, He does let us become wounded, but He also heals us and binds us up. Somehow that changed everything. God had not turned His back on me, He had not forgotten me, He was not unable to protect me, He had allowed me to get hurt but He had been standing right there waiting to make me better.

God does not want His people playing hurt, He wants to heal them and make them whole, but He can’t do that unless you get to know Him.

Love,
Jill

I realize that this is huge topic for a small Zmail. But if this is an area you are wrestling with here’s a link that might help you. http://www.gci.org/spiritual/trials/whysuffer

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In the summer of 2008 I was looking at a herd of zebras in a wild animal park and commented to my son that I didn’t understand why the lions didn’t just eat the zebras because their markings make them so obvious. He told me that the opposite was actually true. God has marked zebras so when they hang together in a herd, their stripes create the illusion they are one large animal and therefore too big to attack. It is the lone zebra that is usually eaten. The same is true of Christians; we must hang together and encourage each other to fight off the lions. The lone Christian is easy prey.

1 Peter 5:8
Be self-controlled and alert. Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour.

Therefore:

Zebras was started to encourage women who desire to follow the Lord Jesus Christ, who want their lives to be transformed to honor God and who are willing to be “zebras” in a world of “horses”. Zebras exists to reassure you that you are not alone and that God has called you to be peculiar. As a peculiar person you should look different than the world

Romans 12:2
Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God's will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will.

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Jill Getchell speaks from her heart and from God’s word in a way that brings encouragement and hope to God’s people. I’ve been blessed to hear her at Awana conferences, a women’s retreat, and from the pulpit of our church. I am confident your people will be equally blessed by spending the day with Jill at We Have Hope...your church will be blessed as well.

Pastor Al Marks

First Baptist Church Vallejo

I have known Jill for many years now. She truly desires to encourage the churches in our community and to strengthen the believers that attend our churches. Her passion for Jesus comes out in her ability to speak, and her heart is to encourage all those that attend to go back into their churches and be a blessing.

Pastor Kelly Patchin

New Harbor Community Church, Benicia

I believe women are vital to the unity and health of the church. They bear the image of God and serve Him in a great way within His church. Zebras has the ability to unite and excite women to grow in their faith and in their relationships with each other. In John 17:20 Jesus says, "My prayer is not for them alone. I pray also for those who will believe in me through their message, that all of them may be one, Father, just as you are in me and I am in you. May they also be in us so that the world may believe that you have sent me.” One of Christ’s last prayers for His church is that they would be one as He is with the Father. And through our unity the world can come to believe in Jesus Christ for salvation. Unity is essential for a healthy church and healthy relationships between women. Zebras can stimulate healthy growth in the spiritual lives of the women in your church too. It is a blessing at New Harbor and I believe it would be a blessing for any pastor to have in their church.

Kelly Patchin, Pastor
New Harbor Community Church

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The Zebra herd has given me the opportunity to be myself. I think we all have a face we put on for others, especially on Sunday. We don’t want to let anyone see the pain or hurt we’re suffering because we feel that it’s a reflection on our walk with Christ. I now have a group of loving Christian women with whom to share the joys and sorrows equally… Without the Zebras, I’d still be wearing my Sunday face. ...............Dawn C.

The Zebra ministry has deepened my relationship with Christ and the women at my church beyond what I thought possible... Most importantly, it has given me a safe place to be very, very real… I have learned how to be transparent and allow my fellow Zebra sisters to support me in prayer and God to minister to the deepest part of my soul--the part that needed it the most.................... Jennifer H.

When I came to New Harbor Church I was so lonely. I knew I needed the fellowship of other Christian women but did not know if I could break out of my self-imposed isolation. I felt unworthy of anyone’s friendship, let alone" godly people"... But Zebras has made me feel the true acceptance of these wonderful women. I have slowly opened my heart to them, with their encouragement and love! I don't have that heavy ache of solitude anymore. ................Barbara B.

I was with you in the beginning meetings of the herd and watched it evolve into a place where we as sisters in Christ could share our burdens without judgment. Being a Zebra helped me through a very trying time- Leap of Faith– leaving a relationship, selling my home and trusting in God. It was encouraging to know that I was not alone and being a part of a group where women could feel understood, comforted, and lifted up spiritually. .................Tracy M.

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